“It’s all about truly understanding the essence of your life. Become adept at building relationships.”
HOW
CAN YOU NURTURE MARITAL HARMONY?
·
Is
marriage important?
Man
is a social animal and prefer to live in groups. They find it difficult to live
in isolation. The need for companionship and a sense of togetherness? There is
a need to work as a team.
·
Why are couples so
different?
The
husband and wife are endowed with a different set of genes acquired uniquely
from both parents. This makes each spouse unique and different. They also come
from a different environment and are nurtured differently.
·
If a couple are so
different how can they coexist?
Unity in diversity is the essence of
marriage. A couple can be seen to be so different yet are able to live together
in unity despite differences. This can happen only when one understands
differences. Adjustments is inevitable. Both work towards common goals
forgetting differences.
·
Hence,
do you think marriages can be worked on?
A couple needs to work on building
space, boundaries, rules. They have to have mutual respect and give freedom and
independence to each other. Both need to live parallel lives and be
interdependent when needed.
What is marriage about?
1.
Marriage is about bonding and creating
an environment as home and making a family with mutual cooperation.
2.
Home needs to be the pillar of
strength.
3.
Marriage is about unity,
individuality and happiness.
“Marriages
are made in heaven! This is the fact of life but most people feel negative
about their life partner and frequently find faults with their spouse is mainly
because their spouse is not according to their expectations. In their endeavour
to be happy and be in control of the relationship, they exercise control over
their partner and land up in problems because of relationship challenges.
egoism, communication, attitude etc., and all contribute to marital disharmony.
At the end of the day most couples are left frustrated, disillusioned about
life, in a blame game pattern, increased negativity etc. It is very important
to know why are we made for each other and why did Destiny give you this life
partner. It is then, when you look deeper, that you understand the significance
of the marriage with your respective spouse. Looking at the objective analysis
of marriage makes marital harmony possible not from personal point of view but
one from objectivity.”
Dr. Damera Vijayalakshmi derives
pleasure in
• Making YOU aware of your
Potential!
• Rediscovering YOU the way you are!
• Transforming YOU!
• Guiding YOU on to your path of Success!
Dr.
Damera Vijayalakshmi helps build confidence, shows YOU how to come out of your
shell and be bold enough to make YOU have what YOU want. She listens patiently
to people’s challenges, assesses their capacities, and guides them on to their
path of success. She carefully designs individualised programs which are
intended to get YOU from where you are to where you want to be.
Dr. Damera Vijayalakshmi
PhD ( Psy ), PhD ( Edn )
Psychologist
| Educationist | Success Strategist
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